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November 29, 2005, 11:20 am PST

11/29 "Fighting Over the Will"

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 Why can't the 19 year-old just grow up? Just because you inherited some money, doesn't mean your ego has to be so high that you have no idea as to what you're doing. My mom tried to protect me for so long that when I moved out, I had to learn about the world the hard way. I don't wish that on anyone. I think that the mom needs to leave the son alone, and when he comes to his senses, sooner or later, he'll realized that life is not about money, and the way the he's spending it is showing how responsible he really is.
OK First off, the MOM is the one spending the money!!! He's not allowed to have any of it. So the SON needs to be protected here. Yeah, MOM does need to leave him, AND HIS MONEY alone. Sounds to me that MOM is the one that isn't grown up here!!!!!!!!! So when you talk about showing true responsibility, talk about MOM not SON!!!
 
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January 21, 2006, 4:30 pm PST

01/18 "Fighting Over the Will"

Quote From: babygirl74

 Why can't the 19 year-old just grow up? Just because you inherited some money, doesn't mean your ego has to be so high that you have no idea as to what you're doing. My mom tried to protect me for so long that when I moved out, I had to learn about the world the hard way. I don't wish that on anyone. I think that the mom needs to leave the son alone, and when he comes to his senses, sooner or later, he'll realized that life is not about money, and the way the he's spending it is showing how responsible he really is.
I am wavering between naming my son, now 22, as beneficiary on my life insurance because he is a drug addict, and I'm afraid he will just blow the money on drugs., and my husband, who swears he would give my son money to live on, but not all of it to kill himself with.  By the time I croak, he may be clean and sober, in which case I would want him to have the money, or he might be in prison or a drug rehab place. 
 


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