Quote From: audacieux1next time he suggests this and says it doesn't mean anything, tell him that you want to bring another man to bed rather than a woman. Tell him the other man will mean nothing. Tell him your sex life is kinda dull. See how he feels about that one.
Dont sink to anyones level that is expressing such behaviors. Once you react in a negative manner then the negativity continues its cycle. It is obvious that there is something going on with him that makes him request such an act. He has to be dealing with something. Maybe he thinks that by being involved in such an act it will confirm his man hood in some way, or maybe he has a friend that has told him about an experience and now he feels the need to compete. Or maybe he is just reaching out and letting you know that there needs to be some changes before he cheats. I dont condone this behavior however never try to react to a negative with a negative.
