Quote From: alteaonI can't believe that spoiled girl who wants a lexus! It could be how I was brought up, but I've never been impressed by brand names. I'm not sure if her day on the farm is going to get through to her as much as when she doesn't get stuff that costs nearly as much as my rent for free! A purse for 350.00? That's gotta be one damn fine purse, indestructible. Heck, for that price, it should come with money. 
 
I agree w/ Dr. Phil that it's not all her fault, she was brought up this way, spoiled rotten. SHe has no idea how hard it is to earn money. It may sound very sheltered of me to say this, and it may be the truth, but I never knew people like that existed aside from Paris Hilton, and Simple Life esque television shows. 
 
I am 27, and have paid for my own vehicles, gas, ect for my entire life. My parents helped me out when I needed it, and since then I have helped them out when they needed it. Its what family does, and part of what family is about. True, I do have some nice things, like my truck ( used), and my rings I've rec'd as gifts. I do not mind paying money for something of quality, something I really want and am willing to work for.  
 
I just don't get it that people can be so materialistic. They are insane to give a girl that young a lexus. Imagine the insurance on that thing? The insurance payments alone would be more than what most people have as a monthly car/truck payment.  
 
Where am I going with this? I don't know, more or less venting, and using this show as a primer on what i do not want to instill in my future children. 
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On the topic of the jock godfather and his band god daughter. Having been in band for many years, I was always made fun of and teased for it. I can be athletic, but I do not enjoy team sports. In my experience, it's way to competitive with in the team itself and not the team working together. Not all athletes act the way that the godfather did on the show, but many of them do. It's a bad stereotype, but it does have some truth. I'm glad that he changed his tune ( pun intended). It was definitely a flashback to watch that segment, and it makes me wonder how many people who made fun of me still feel the same way about band people. Sports can be very taxing, both mentally and physically, but so are many other persuits.  
Growing up my Mom would have liked to have spoiled us, but she couldn't, what little money we had couldn't be spent on treats. But even at that I had no idea how hard it was to make ends meet, when I graduated high school and worked fast food while I was in college. I was like HOLY COW!!!!!!!!!!!!!! how did Mama do this and not lose her sanity.
I had to drive a car that I could afford and it was a BOMB!!!!!!!! but I learned to work on it and I learned to be self reliant. I have been in the work force full time since I was 19, I'm 35 now, and I don't think the world owes me living. The $350 purse made me laugh like crazy, that is what I paid for my first car.