When we lose a child, a part of our heart dies with them. She can't be gone forever if she lives in your heart. There is a group called Compassionate Friends for parents who have lost children. There may be a group in your area. It helps to be with people who share your pain, and the more you tell your story the better it will feel. Celebrate your daughter's short life by sharing her with other people.
I'd like to hear more about her. What was her first name? What color was her hair and eyes? Did she have any hobbies? Was she a typical 14 year old girl who would change clothes 10 times a day and talk on the phone forever??? I hope these memories make you smile, and I really do hope you'll share them.
Thinking of you.