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December 8, 2005, 2:35 pm PST
someone to help
Quote From: amanda4128I don't see how they can forgive their step father for what he did. I have a friend, my best friend actually, she was abused and molested by her real dad, then molested by her stepdad. It is crazy to ask them to forget about it. My friend is in her mid 20's now and still has night mares about it even though she is now married. I wasn't molested by my father but I just recently found out that my husband has been having sex with me in my sleep. I feel betrayed and I can't hardly sleep at night for fear of what might happen if I fall into a deep sleep. I feel violated.
As far as the anger, Jamey needs to get those children out of there because my husband is exactly like what is described, since we said I do I have been constantly yelled at. The children a yelled at just for screaming since day one of thier births. He tried to shake both of them out of anger for their crying but I intervened, I was thrown into a wall, but I intervened.
It is pretty sad becuase since I have been watching Dr Phil I could qualify for almost all of his shows. I wish I had someone to help me. Doctor Phil is not the only therapist in the world. There are lots of good ones who specialize in the same things he does. Even Dr Phill calls in different Psycologists on his staff. Go in your yellow pages and call someone, or call CPS, or your welfare department. If you have medical insurance, call you insurance company and see who works with them or talk to your PCM and ask for a referral or advice. Ask a friend or parent for help if they are around and supportive. Help is available, but you need to be doing to work to get it. You aren't alone, but if you stay in that situation and do nothing but wish for a solution to fall out of the sky then you have no one to blame for your problems but yourself. I know that sounds harsh, and my intent isn't to be judgmental, but that is the truth.
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