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December 6, 2005, 2:16 pm PST

I'd have to agree with missjane

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This Show was a lot of Fun!  I am only disappointed that I won't be able to watch the conclusion tommorrow...  Shoot!   I will say I AM SURPRIZED that some of the ladies brought up their Ex's on the first date.  I mean and Judy it was almost in the first sentence.  Judy it was almost like she said:  Look I am in love with someone else and I am not yet over it.  And Noelle.... Why do you think you need to give this guy who you just met your whole life history?  SAVE IT FOR YOUR COUNSELLOUR....   I would say nothing unless they DUG it out of you and then I would say something to change the subject.   I think the first question I would ask a stranger if I was seriously considering a relationship with them would be:  Do You Play the Guitar?  (That would be the first question and I think it would be a springboard to discuss alot of other things..... Just My Opinion........ 

I wouldn't necessarily freely offer that information unless it was asked of me...nor would i dodge the question.  Answer the question and see where it goes, but don't dwell on it.  There's a reason why the past is called the past.  You want your potential partner to see that you've dealt with what's happened in earlier relationships -- not that you're still hung up on it. 

Dating is definitely a difficult thing.  I've had my fair share of good and bad dates.  What I've learned is that what you put out there is what you find.  If you're expecting a potential partner to not be attracted to you because of your age or weight, that is what you dwell on during the date and that is what your date will see.   

 


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