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December 6, 2005, 2:25 pm PST
I agree with SOME of what you say
Quote From: missjane2#1 Time: I think the second question would be: What do you currently do with your time during the week and what do you hope to do with your time on a day to day week to week month to month basis?
#2 AGE: I see so many comments on these boards about Age. I think you have an actual age: How old you really are. You have a physical age: How old you look and people think you are and then a Mental Age: YOUR MENTALITY **laugh** (I think being around kids alot lowers your Mental Age in order to relate and manage themm.... **tilts head**
Like with Age.... My grandma's now deceased who were THE BEST GRANDMA'S EVER. I am so thankful to have had them. I would trade them for nothing. They were perfect...... BUT in the last portion of their life 5- 10 years.... one thing I remember them talking about was their aches and pains and the obituaries... who died that they knew this week.... It's like that was their mentality or what they thought about and talked to others about. It didn't change how I felt about them because as mentioned I adored them.... but in terms of this discussion um like if you as an older woman or man ( I have to include that because men break this rule too.) LISTEN TO WHAT YOU TALK ABOUT because I think that is often what attracts older men to younger women. These young girls LOOK UP TO THEM AND RESPECT THEIR WISDOM where you might think they are full of ##$%& and that very well could be true ROFL but the young girl just says yeah uh huh WOW Really? It's not totally about how young looking and cute she may be.... I think it's a bit about attitude and CONVERSATION.......
I mean listen to what teenagers care about? their nails.... the movies..... their face and clothes.....
ITS A MENTALITY.... I think you can be Young at Heart..... Mis Jane. I agree with SOME of your comments. You have a good point about acting youthful rather than talking about illness, aches and pains etc. But I don't think it is so much what attracts men to younger women. I think it is a basic shallowness, a need for an ego boost and arm candy that attracts fifty-somethings to 20 year olds. Lets face it, how much can they possibly have in common?? It is a no-brainer why the 20 something girls go for the older guys. MONEY, MONEY, MONEY!!! If Billy Joel, Donald Trump etc. were not rich would these young girls have married them?? Hmm...would be interesting to know that. As far as interesting conversations, I am still waiting to see a 20 something that can converse without saying 'I am SOOOOOO..or "I was like...." Bottom line...he wants the bimbo arm candy and she wants the dollars.
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