Quote From: flitrfliesunconventional sex. i'm up for it too. my hubby has to schedule me in, in between his video games and more video games. he doesn' t 'go down-town' but i'm suppose to preform oral for him. he told me to get a woman to do the job. not a problem. i welcome all applicants. i have always been attracted to women and have probably had more sexual relationships with women then i've had with men! if the children aren't getting hurt, my husband isn't affected by it and encourages me, i'm doing it.
i just don't know where to find a woman interested in the same endeavors that i am interested in. especially in my town.
go for it girl! just don't involve the kids...it there are any.
Please! Do you not understand your marriage vows? Why have a Christian church wedding when you have no plans to stick with love, honor and commitment? Sorry, but it ALWAYS involves the kids. And they should come first, not your lust or what you feel is best for YOU! You don't need sex outside marriage. What you need is to work on your marriage so your husband doesn't waste his time with video games instead of making quality time with you...and your children!
You will be divorced in a no time if you go outside of your marriage. And you don't think this will affect your kids? You obviously don't want much Dr. Phil. If you did, he would tell you that extramarital affairs (even if a neglectful spouse says he doesn't care if his wife has one) ALWAYS end poorly. Humans are prone to jealousy and ANY TIME someone turns away from his/her marriage/spouse instead of working toward his/her relationship with their spouse, the end result is bad.
You are an ADULT. You are supposed to be mature, responsible, committed and a good role model for your children. LIfe isn't alway easy or fair, but it's what YOU make of it. Start working on your marriage, if not for you, for the sake of those innocent children. SHAME on anyone with your mindset! I wish you much luck; I am so thankful I have maturned in my 16 years of marriage to understand about love, committment and working as a team! I always have a very high respect for doing what God wants, even when it's a long, hard path to follow.
