Quote From: caninormfrom this show today.... as I would have been saying some of those exact same things they were saying..... I don't think it matters what age you are.... as the women on the show clearly showed.... I am stuck in a rut, a breast cancer survivor of almost two years, and am trying to figure out how to get back in the world again, let alone when do I tell him, and should I honestly expect a man to care about me when the disease may come back again..... But today I really learned alot.... I now know what kinds of questions to ask him, how to get to the 'root' of him quickly and hoping he would want to get to the 'root' of me..... So thanks so much Dr. Phil..... I think I may even go get the book...... 
I'm one step ahead I just logged on to Barnes and Noble and bought the book. I'm convinced that anything can help. I've been single for 23 years and I've dated a lot and this is hard for me because I hate dating. My problem is like yours getting back into dating scene. It's hard to do but if we both have to force ourselves.
Sherry