Quote From: saturnI would like to comment about the show. I did not get to see it because of having to work, but
in signing in on Dr. Phil's web site I read up on the shows. I am a 53 yr old women that has been married once and have since been divorced. In my previous relationship, it was a very bad and demeaning one. I am overweight and am in decent health, but I am not looking. Because of my previous relationship, I am now happy being single. I have my job and my family around me to support me. If the right person does come along, that person will do the asking. I'm not going to do the looking. I was brought up from the old school that the other person ask's first. I would just sit back and relax and that person, if he's good enough, will come to you.
After my divorce I didn't date at all because I felt that raising my daughter was the most important thing in my life. There came a time in her life when she said, "Mom, you need to date!" So I went on M*tch.com and talked to many people who interested me and began dating. I dated 12 guys before I found the "one" who is the man of my dreams! He is very sensitive, romantic, funny and sees all the good in me. We are engaged to be married and will wed wed when our kids are grown and gone. Meanwhile we are together all the time. My advice is start walking and lose some weight and start looking! There is someone for everyone, but you have to find them. Chances are they won't come to you. deb
