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December 6, 2005, 7:48 pm PST

was mother teresa ugly?

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Dr.  Phil,

I am 38 years old woman who has cerebral palsy since birth.   It's very hard to find a sensitive guy who are NOT gay and not married.  Most "able" guys are not sensitive enough to date a disabled woman who depends on them physically.   I have multi-task problem such as speech difficulty, cannot walk,  cannot use my hands, and other physical problems.   I am able to work as graphic designer and I have my own studio.

I have tried many online dating sites.  Right now, I'm on eharmony.com.   I haven't found the "right"  guy,  since I broke up with my ex-boyfriend 10 years ago.  I'm very optimistic, but I feel like my time is running out.   I may end up at age 50 or 60 before I find someone whom I can trust.
 
Why are a lot of men  not senstive enough to care about disabled women?

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L-A

ugly, old, disabled does nmot sell!!!!! 

  

i got married for the wrong reason.... he raped me and i felt soiled. but dammit, i did my best and love to bits the 3 kids i had.... i had my day of youth and good looks.... yes was a tad disabled but never gave that a secod thought.... but then.... he decides to go ..... ok, take your freedom..... but he did not have to leave me homeless, sick, etc having vowed to take it all, kids included and without a pension.... 

  

it was tough, i nearly died from the fall: from riches to extreme poverty, from a very good career to being a bag lady....... and how are kids to stay normal seing how easy it is for a man to ditch their mother like that dog you kick on the farm -and get away with it............ now that's the miracle. 

  

YOU PROMISED not to leave out some areas in society but i must admit the bold, the young and the healthy beautiful are often on the stage........ 

  

mother teresa was ugly to the eye........ but in the end dr. phil..... what is in reality beautiful? 

  

show america... the disabled, the homeless, the poor, the disfigured (i loved Robin's sister btw) are also as potentially deserving of a happy life!!!!!! 

 
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December 6, 2005, 7:56 pm PST

Stick with it

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Dr.  Phil,

I am 38 years old woman who has cerebral palsy since birth.   It's very hard to find a sensitive guy who are NOT gay and not married.  Most "able" guys are not sensitive enough to date a disabled woman who depends on them physically.   I have multi-task problem such as speech difficulty, cannot walk,  cannot use my hands, and other physical problems.   I am able to work as graphic designer and I have my own studio.

I have tried many online dating sites.  Right now, I'm on eharmony.com.   I haven't found the "right"  guy,  since I broke up with my ex-boyfriend 10 years ago.  I'm very optimistic, but I feel like my time is running out.   I may end up at age 50 or 60 before I find someone whom I can trust.
 
Why are a lot of men  not senstive enough to care about disabled women?

Thanks,
L-A
Love will find you...just stick with it and keep believing.  Surround yourself with girlfriends to provide support.  Also, have you joined organizations in your area that have to do with your job so that you have a social network that is more diverse. 
 


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