Replies to '03/31 Love Smart, Part 1'

After reading some of the messages, I want to say to all the women that Men are eveywhere.   

I don't believe in the bar scene, or online dating.  Been there. Done that.  Long enough.  Didn't work for me.   

Let me tell you a little story; 

I have been in bars for 1 year before I met my previous partner.    

I was tired of being alone.   So, I planned a trip to put some excitment in my life. 

I was looking to take pictures for my passeport.  He was working at that photo shop.  We started talking about the prices and the service.  I was in a great mood because I was travelling.   He was mesmerized because of my positive attitude and enjoyable mood that I was in. 

The conversation led naturally to a more personal topic where I learned that he was single.  I was feeling so comfortable within my skin that I invited him to join me in the little bar where I was heading later.   

He came.  It lasted 4 years. 

I grabbed an opportunity,  taking the risk of being rejected.   All that time spent in bars where the men are just oooohhh so not ready to commit.... what a waste of time.  I just needed to speak to strangers.  There is more quality there. 

Have I been rejected in the past? Sure!  Many times.  Everydody does.  Cute or not.  Do you see J Lo or Jennifer Anniston having the best time with men?  Their beauty doesn't seem to serve them better then the rest of us. 

I am not a supermodel.   But he made me feel like a princess for 4 years.  We broke up because we stopped "dating".  The spark was lost. 

Men are everywhere 

Good,  Available,  not Supercial,  Wanting to Comit Men are everywhere.    

I think that to be successful at dating, you need to have that vibrant feeling of a "million dollars" and some techniques from Dr. Phil,  develop some abilities to talk to strangers and you will sure find the "One"  

Overweight or not.