Quote From: gizmew1981I can't help but think at least all these women have had prospects. I am almost 25 and have never had a boyfriend or even been asked out! The only "date" I have ever had was a set up and went nowhere. It seems like I am not even getting chances to show people who I am. I admit I am shy and a little hard to get to know, and I don't do well in crowds, but batting eyelashes and flipping hair is not me and I would just feel ridiculous flirting. I don't know how to find a guy without pursuing one like a hunter. Ideas?
Hey, I was a very shy girl too, but did meet and marry the most wonderful guy in the world. I felt it was right early on because I immediately felt VERY comfortable with him and we enjoyed talking to each other and going places together and getting to know each other. I felt no need to try to impress, it happened naturally.
Personally I feel that the "flipping hair" and batting eyelashes that alot of young girls resort to looks stupid and pathetic. And any guy that falls for that deserves the phony, vacuous chick that he gets. Go for substance and quality, instead of the phony garbage that is out there. Try to follow your interests and meet guys that way. I never liked crowds either and don't think that type of atmosphere is the right place. Be friendly...that will attract people who aren't superficial enough to go for the hair flipping act. Good luck and be optimistic..it CAN happen for you!
