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December 7, 2005, 3:10 am PST

Let's face it!

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I assume nothing. I speak through a great deal of personal experience.  "whining is a pejorative assumption made by the listener."  In this case, I believe that would be you, and you would prove my point rather well had I been making one. I was merely offering some positive qualities I have noticed in younger women that were lacking in the last few women I have dated who were in my age group. I suspect there are plenty of women who are not like this, but I haven't been looking all that hard. You have read far too much into what I have written, but thanks for your input. I enjoyed reading your opinion. 

Guys want younger women because they are ego-boosting arm candy. But it comes with a price.  They are usually gold-diggers and have a sense of entitlement that the world owes them something because of their youth and looks. As I said in a previous post, men want the bimbo on their arms and the bimbo will soak you for whatever she can get.  Nice basis for a lasting relatonship. 
 

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December 7, 2005, 9:08 am PST

Stereotyping

Quote From: wespauley

I assume nothing. I speak through a great deal of personal experience.  "whining is a pejorative assumption made by the listener."  In this case, I believe that would be you, and you would prove my point rather well had I been making one. I was merely offering some positive qualities I have noticed in younger women that were lacking in the last few women I have dated who were in my age group. I suspect there are plenty of women who are not like this, but I haven't been looking all that hard. You have read far too much into what I have written, but thanks for your input. I enjoyed reading your opinion. 

You made a bunch of pejorative assumptions about older women, generalizing to a demographic, based on your experiences with a few women.  I called you on it & then you appear to insinuate that I'M whining.  If you had made the same pejorative statements about African Americans or another ethic group, you would have been called on that as well.  That's life on the internet--stereotype & you will get called on it, particularly if it's pejorative stereotypes.   

  

It's an interesting tactic at work here.  You can say "People in group A are angry people."  Someone in group A can say, "I find your stereotyping offensive."  And then you say, "See?  I told you people in group A are angry."  I correctly figured you would twist my response of not being pleased to be stereotyped into an assertion that your point has been proven.   

  

Thank you for enjoying reading my opinion. 

  

 


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