Quote From: zapatasredJust to give you some encouragement, I didn't get married until I was 30 and it worked well for me. I'm not sure what you meant by too much baggage and "cold" but maybe those are just areas you could work on for yourself. Sometimes it is important to be yourself so you will be relaxed with the guy when you go out. Have you thought about YOU asking the guy out? Like for coffee? get 2 tickets to something. Sometimes you got to work on yourself a bit to attract attention, who knows- way too much media hype on the perfect body, etc. You want someone NICE, too!!!! Singles groups at churches are good- I know someone who met a guy there. Working at a community theater is good but some of the guys may be gay but others aren't I know someone or lots who met guys that way. Even working on the set or tickets or costumes you are part of something. Get a dog and go to the park. everyone will stop and talk if you are friendly. Don't live at home. Even if you have to share a house or apartment with 3-4 girls you will meet more people. Listen, I didn't have a kid until I was 39 and I was just fine. Try and be more positive. What are your favorite things in life? I don't know what type of work you do but don't overlook the guy who like you, may be a diamond in the rough.Focus on giving what you would like to get back- attention, interest, conversation .instead of what you don't have. I don't know where you live but some places have great guy to girl ratios. OK, so Alaska may be a stretch and far north but I'd bet you'd have more guys than you could handle!!!!!! Go for it girl!!!!!
There are lots of men who cannot stand women who are all made up and with fake everything either.
Heck, there are whole countries where women do not put on make-up, dye their hair, and giggle.
Please don't give up, be nice and caring, always. Someone will notice how easy it is to be with you.
