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December 7, 2005, 3:03 pm PST
attitude adjustment?
Quote From: dr_joyMust be a sign from God -- my first message didn't post. Oh well. According to Dr. Phil's guidelines, there is no man who would want me that I would want, since men intimidated by strong women, and I can't respect a man as a romantic partner, who has less ability than I have, and has done less than I have, especially since I feel like I've only done 1/10th of my potential .... Thank you Dr. Phil, for helping me realize that I will be single the rest of my life (I guess I better find a good deal on batteries for my BOB! (smile) ..... The one thing I learned was when they said men are intimidated by strong women and that men need to be needed on an emotional level of connectedness. , not just to take women on a vacation,etc. I did not hear that put quite that way before. I really want to go on a vacation really bad right now!. But I do depend on my husband for the daily emotional connectedness even if we just act silly and watch Jay Leno at night. or CSI. I think having some equalness in education helps. But one of the nuttiest, most fun people I ever met (and who was married to a great guy) is someone who has a PHD and worked with moonrocks sent back from outerspace. Another person I know belonged to Mensa but has a more negative attitude and is not in a relationship. My elderly relative going on 90 is in a nursing home but has a great attitude and has a special ladyfriend who lives there also. Go figure that one.:>)
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