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December 8, 2005, 10:43 am PST
Beautiful People Don't Need Help?
Quote From: groovyAnd he's been happily married for decades. What the heck does he know about being dating & being single? Just b/c you're a famous psychologist doesn't make you an authority on everything.
Good point about helping singles other than the "beautiful people" who need less help than the rest of us. I have known quite a few gorgeous women who didn't easily get dates from men they were interested in. One girl I used to go out with attracted every man in sight. She was gorgeous! Every guy at our office fell in love with her. I took the time to get to know her and I realized that she was meeting the same types of men I met (drunks, losers, players, jerks, much older men, users, etc.). The ONLY difference was she met many more men than I did. She did not meet a lot of quality men just because she was GORGEOUS! She had two failed marriages. First husband was a drunk. Second husband fell in love with someone else. When I became friends with her she was dating a married man. For 8 years she waited for him to leave his wife. He never did. But I can guarantee you that plenty of women were jealous of her. I realized there was nothing to be jealous of. So, we all need help in meeting someone.
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