Quote From: dac07172 My friend of 18 years recently got divorced. Prior to that she had an affair with a man from another state. Her 3 children are in a dilemna as she has now gotten involved with another man. She can't seem to stand being alone. Her daughter came to talk to me the other night and vented her frustrations as when she woke up Saturday morning this man was sleeping with her mother. The mom now says that she has talked to her children and they are okay with everything, but if so, then why does her daughter come here? I don't trust her and I think she is lying. This just happened this week, and now she is going to Vegas with another friend. Do I need this friend in my life? She has done this to her children more than once and still says she was wrong to have the man sleep there, but I think she will do it again. Her own sister and brother will have nothing to do with her.
I think sometimes that you dont need certain people in your life, maybe you are better off without her, but you have been friends for 18 yrs and understandably that would be hard, maybe you should take a break from her and see how you like it. Good luck with it.