Quote From: jim1970Men and women were doing fine until Gloria Steinem came into the picture. Now, men have become women and women have become aggressive. I tried the "nice guy" approach for YEARS. It doesn't work. Women tend to flake out on dates and cheat. My favorite excuse is: "Oh! He's just an old friend!"
As per the old Alice Cooper tune: "No More Mr. Nice Guy". If an American woman doesn't take her rightful place in the relationship, guys like myself can always go overseas or South of the Border where men are treated like the Kings that we are. This is happening on an increasing frequency.
Another old tune comes to mind: Santana's "You've Got To Change Your Evil Ways". He hit it right on the head. Wives aren't supposed to be out all hours with their girlfriends. They are supposed to be homemakers and cooking our dinner. We guys are sick of going to Denny's. We want REAL FOOD.
Oh my goodness...Gloria Steinem (?) is at fault for all this crap? Now we know who to blame...LOL...
Ya know Jimmy, this is a real indication that you might have had some seriously damaging rlsp experiences in the past....and maybe those things have been the determining factors in your life in the present day long enough! ....you might want to think about getting past some things with forgiveness and just moving on to looking at women differently because this might actually have some benefits in the way you view sex altogther....this could only be a great enhancement in your current rlsp.
I say, more power to ya, Jim, if there are women overseas, those who haven't been corrupted by the "American way" then go for it. Just make sure you stay there with them....as so they won't "get" Americanized from being here. We wouldn't want that ya know.
Now to brass tacks.....so does your wife stay out all night with g/fs? When did this start? Do you have kids? How long have you been married? Is this disconnection in the marriage the reason you had to resort to porn....too much Denny's food?
I totally get what you are saying....so what's really going on with you and your marriage?
Luv~
