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December 11, 2005, 10:24 pm PST
Afraid to Ask for What You Want?
Quote From: marihop60One is when we have sex, he likes to "talk" and it ends up sounding like a porn movie. Sometimes that's ok, but sometimes I wonder if he could ever really make love, and I'd like to feel love during the act, like I'm special, and not the F Me Baby. I have told him I'm not a Bit**, and stopped movement when he said it, he got that hint and he has stopped calling me that. My problem is that I want the words I want to hear to come from his heart, not that I had to ask for them. How do you ask for something you wish for, but it would lose meaning if you have to ask?!! I know from talking to my man regarding this that he says it excites him more to talk that way. I myself talk that way sometimes to my husband but not all the time. There are times to make love and times to get chatty and wild. I think that your man needs to take a look at what you are saying and acknowledge what you are saying and that you guys might have a better sex life it he did. Not saying you have a bad one but sounds like he likes it that way all the time and that is not good. I would not be able to deal with that. You need that love making too.
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