Quote From: unclemtl You said, "I cannot trust anything that comes out of a man's mouth." Remember those words because in their lies the answer. People are always telling you who they are but in truth THEY SHOW YOU WHO THEY ARE. Don't get fooled by the sales pitch about his good qualities, they should be observable, not some convuloted story.
Also, if a person loves you and respects you, he will treat you as such, (again an action, not a story). If you feel some sort of sharp pain in your gut or shoulders when he says something to you. Be aware, it's your mind telling your body, I don't like that or that hurt me. It's a signal that all is not right.
Good Luck,
James
Just wanted to let you know that there is a way to know about people. You have a wonderful life ahead of you.
Dr. Phil said it all when he said, "Living Well is the Best Revenge". ....That includes a life with a good person or without.
I was taught to trust people - good people - but I got a life lesson in trust, confidence, faith, integrity, etc. Now I know what I have are like diamonds (pearls) not to be given to swine.
The rich get conned to, I think, however it is more difficult because they investigate before they mate.
You are going to be just fine....you can love again with your EYES WIDE OPEN.
I am so glad Dr. Phil did a show on my subject! Isn't he just OPRAH'S gift to the world?
Take care.
