Quote From: karlbarthHere it goes. I hope someone can help me. I just found out that my wife is pregnant with our third child, problem is I never wanted another one. Those reasons have nothing to do with this post. My issue is that I am 99.9% sure that I was tricked into this. I am plannng on getting a vasectomy soon and had told my wife that. She always wanted another but I was always against it. Now I find out that she is pregnant and I am very angry with her over this possible deception. My anger is consumimg me. I want to tell her but am worried about the health of her and the child, but I am afraid that this has caused irreperable damage already. Anyone out there in a similiar spot or know of others. Help!!!
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o my gosh my father is in the same thing hes 48 has had 2 kids i'm 17 my sis is 12 and my dum step mother told my dad "i dont think i can have kids" mean while be for she met my pops she got nocked up and lost it. my dad i dont no what he was thing but like women can have babie until there 50 if god lets them. he had sex with her bar back (with out condom or birth control) and guess what now shes having his 3 child he was getting ready to retire. this happend may 24 and she told him fathers day he was pissed and wanted some one to talk to so he talk to me and i said to him as i'm saying to you, were not wearing a condom is she not on birthcontrol? if you are on birthcontrol you will not get nocked up i have been on it since i was 13 and trust me if it were not for the pill in would have like 3 kids by now. so really its just nuthing to be upset over i no u dident want a 3 child but maybe then u should have used a condom. i beleave in you as i do in my dad its hard to swallow i'm going into collage and ma sis is going in to hight school and now he has to do it all over again. i no your up set but deep down in side you love your wife and soon to be all 3 kids if u need some on to talk to talk to a paster or a counseler u no or me lol i'm 17 but i have been through hell and back and you never no i may be able to help.
brittney
