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December 13, 2005, 10:55 pm PST
Thank You!!!!
Quote From: queentweenLadies, why do we always beat up on each other? Jeez- no matter what it is, everyone has to put someone else down- even to the point of clothing! I can honestly say, I do not care if you have on baggy jeans, sweats, walmart specials or designer duds. I do not care if you have a mary kay face or a dove face. The only thing that matters to me is if you have a smile on- and if you don't, I want to know why. If you have concerns about other women not doing their hair, or dressing up, offer to babysit their children for free while they go to get a dye job or go shopping for some more presentable clothing. Offer to come over and help them to clean their house so they can try to dig themselves out of an overwhelming housecleaning situation. Offer to lend an ear while they bare their soul. But quit your cringing, because it gives you wrinkles. I have been beat up upon and put down my whole life because I didn't wear the right things or have the right stuff. Why do women constantly have to put each other down. We are women for crying out loud. We are in the 2000's. In this day and age women are supposed to be stronger. Why cant we support each other and be friends without the constant battling? I just wish we could all reach out to each other and help one another the way you described and not be judgemental or insecure.
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