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jettav
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December 19, 2005, 12:01 pm PST

My Friend/Relative Won't Discipline!

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My sister has a 12 year old daughter and a 10 year old son and they are totally out of control. they are way over weight because my sister eats out all the time and she lets them eat what they want when they want. My 12 year old neice tells my sister what she is and isnt going to do. She beat me up a couple of months ago! yes my neice! and my sister blamed me! i cant stand to hear her son's voice. he is so spoilt that he screams out loud when he dont get his way and it doesnt matter where you are. He torments my 7 year old and my child loves him! He is sneaky mean and wont ask me for anything..he will yell "mommy' as loud as he can until she answers him and  if he wants her to come to him she does.  He whispers her ear to ask for something in my house! makes me sick. The other day he and my son were playing and y son ask him where something was and he told him"if it was up your but you would know it!" is it wrong that I cant stand to be around this child? My neice is getting Fs on her report card and my sister grounds her for a day and then it is over..she has recieved several letters from the school about her behavior and my sister blames the school and says they are picking on her child lol. What is wrong with them?
Well, you can't change her and her ways but you can make the rules and boundaries when it comes to your home and kids. If they cannot respect you and your kids then you have every right to remind them of your rules and if they don't like it then tell them to leave. I know, this is probably not something that you want to do, but believe me, sometimes it just has to be done. You can tell your sister that you care for her and her kids and such but rules/boundaries are just that and meant to be kept, not broken therefore you stick by your house rules. you may just need to stay away from her for a time and see what happens, stick to your guns and don't give in to her ways. Sounds like she has some issues that she needs to work on and until she gets control and gets the help with her kids and all that she needs, this will continue and it will get worse so I would advise you to keep space between the two of you and don't be fed into her ways.
 
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December 21, 2005, 9:50 am PST

hi

Quote From: tngirl33

My sister has a 12 year old daughter and a 10 year old son and they are totally out of control. they are way over weight because my sister eats out all the time and she lets them eat what they want when they want. My 12 year old neice tells my sister what she is and isnt going to do. She beat me up a couple of months ago! yes my neice! and my sister blamed me! i cant stand to hear her son's voice. he is so spoilt that he screams out loud when he dont get his way and it doesnt matter where you are. He torments my 7 year old and my child loves him! He is sneaky mean and wont ask me for anything..he will yell "mommy' as loud as he can until she answers him and  if he wants her to come to him she does.  He whispers her ear to ask for something in my house! makes me sick. The other day he and my son were playing and y son ask him where something was and he told him"if it was up your but you would know it!" is it wrong that I cant stand to be around this child? My neice is getting Fs on her report card and my sister grounds her for a day and then it is over..she has recieved several letters from the school about her behavior and my sister blames the school and says they are picking on her child lol. What is wrong with them?

well for one thing it is not the kids  

i mean they take partial on it  

but it is the way that she is raising the kids  

now they are 12 and 10  

it might not be to late for them  

but i think she needs to get them some help  

i don't think your sister is looking into the future 

i always do with my son  

he is 7 and he gives me a hard time to  

he gets mouthy and sometimes i do not know what to do  

any advice for me? 

  

  
 
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