Quote From: tierd5I feel like a single mom of 4 kids but the last time I checked I only went through 3 labors. My husband wont clean up after himself or anything. He says that his job is really hard and that I don't have anything better to do. I have a son who was diagnosed with ADHD and Aspergers syndrome he sees a psychiatrist once a month and sometimes more depending on his mood. I have to drive an hour to take him. I also have a daughter who is having a real hard time with school and a daughter with asthma. With all of this to deal with it would be nice to have a husband who would be supportive in the things I do. I have told him that I am tired of him not listening to my problems and always wanting me to feel sorry for him, and that I am seriously thinking about divorce, but he doesn't even seem to realize that I am serious. I know that the man wont even consider counseling, because he thinks there's nothing wrong. What am I to do?
I just wanted to let you know that you are not in this baot alone. I am a mother of 4 and i feel that at times i am married to a paycheck. My husband runs the farm at the local jr college and has a farm of our own and has a side job af breeding cattle. I can relate to the lonely feeling that you have. All i can say is hang in there. And just contuine to be honest with him and tell him verbaly how you feel. Don't say "you.....and you this....." tell him "I....... and I......" that's the best advise i can give you. Chin up and smile!!
