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December 29, 2005, 5:52 am PST

Agreed with you Jennifer

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In my opinion when you are married or dateing or whatever. You do not treat your bf/gf whatever the case maybe like that. In my book thats wrong. When you get married your vows are "for better or for worse in sickness and in health for richer for poorer to love and to charish" that not just scribble on paper. They are sacred vows that mean something. You dont call your spouse names. That is awfull in my opinion. 

Jennifer 

 

 

I myself been through this for years years. Ok  when we re dating things were smoothy yeah  i just fell for it.  The thing is didnt know he has other side of problem  about himself like depression  etc. Some I do but I do stay by him stand by him to listened to him what does he have to say support him ack. He didnt realized that I was very different from other women. This is what he likes about me. Respect love understanding and supportive.  OK
Later years I noticed his behavior what idoit I am for put up with him. I guess I wasnt ready to be commendment say yes this and that rather hiding. He s been calling names for other people who  they are if they are against him he  builds nasty way but when it comes other hand he talk nice about them and call me names. It does hurt me of course wound still on my skin and heart. After all things were fine. My daughter has been telling me he s calling name terrible fact I dont hear o k. well he s not only one. Daughter and him do this to me. Its not normal.
 

IF i had been strong years ago and be tough and move on and knowing what to do and make him scare off etc.. I wouldnt stay with him. Ok this is soon to be year 2006 its going to make worse scare him off I hoped i just hoped this is what I m looking for to make him hush or scotch tape. 

I m very nervous yes thats depends what day  what month  of the day good happy relax funny sad or etc...  

I dont agreed be calling names is very very unhealthy. Remember I m going to work on and move on year 2006 if this is what i m looking for. I wished I could slap his face for call me names. I can be charged if I did. Its nuts.I do beleive slap his face will teach him a lesson. 

My blind to see the problem around me is opened now I guess couselling helps and  even been online and watch dr phil  helps alot . You know its very distrub inside for me. My hubby is hearing. 

  

 


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