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December 29, 2005, 5:53 pm PST
12/28 Wifestyles
Quote From: saddaysThis post absolutely terrifies me.
The U.S. is certainly far behind other developed nations that know about evolution and aren't religious fanatics who believe that the Bible should be interpreted literally. You're insane if you truly believe that there really was an Adam and Eve and that she came from his rib. You're no less ignorant than some forest native who believes in rain gods & thinks sacrifices will end droughts.
I do believe that if a woman stays at home she makes a better mother. I think if you're simply a wife, that shouldn't be the reason why you stay at home while your husband works. You should be doing something with your time. But if you're a mother, it is certainly better if you stay home with your kids. It is a very difficult job as it is, and mothers who work just do not put as much as they need to into their kids. I think the importance of the relationship between mother and child is more important with regard to a wife staying home than the relationship between the wife & husband. If it was just a wife & husband, it would be perfectly reasonable in this day and age for the wife to work, because she doesn't have the burdensome chores that women had back in the day in order to keep the house clean, the firewood gathered, the gardens hoed, etc. Modern convenience allows women the free time to work outside the home, BUT when there are children in the picture, I think a mother should be there for her kids as much as possible & when women try to be superwomen, they end up being mediocre at both, or neglecting one thing to do better at the other.
And by the way, evolution explains all of this, if any of you who don't "believe in" it actually would bother to go educate yourselves beyond the "humans came from monkeys" thing that you're all so offended by. Human behavior can be explained very thoroughly through evolution, animal behavior, etc. Oh yeah, and we're all animals too. Even your bible-thumping can be explained by animal behavior and evolutionary science. We haven't moved as far beyond the rest of the animal kingdom as many ignorant religious fanatics would like to think. Your post absolutely terrifies me. To imply that someone is a "religious fanatic" because they interpret the Bible literally is ridiculous. To say that someone is no less ignorant than some forest native who believes in rain gods and thinks sacrifices will end the droughts is just downright idiotic. First of all if one believes in the Creation Story and Adam and Eve - they do not believe in rain gods...
However, seeing as I am American Indian AND a Christian - you have doubly insulted me and I AM offended. I do not disagree with the Theory of Evolution, nor do I disagree with the Theory of Creation. You see, I accept on faith that I will someday know those answers. I do not NEED to know those answers.
As far as your very broad statement that mothers who work just do not put as much as they need to into their kids... again, I take great offense to that. I work, I have always worked - not necessarily by choice but out of necessity. I work, I am a Cub Scout Leader, a Soccer Coach, a Baseball mom, on the Special Education committee for our School District, I am also homeroom mom. On top of that I can promise you that there is never a point in the day when I do not know where my child is and who he is with. Furthermore - he is a well adjusted child and he knows that he is #1 in my life. He also sees a very strong mother who for 7 years raised him on her own. Who for the first 5 years of his life CHOSE not to date - because, he was #1. When I got married this past summer - he and my husband exchanged vows... WHY? Because we wanted him to know that this decision was not one that was made for him... it was a decision that he had to make. My husband and I would not have married if my son would not have given his blessing. My son knew all of this. My son sees a strong woman who worked hard to provide a roof, dinner on the table and the clothes on our back. He watched me work long hours in the office and come home and work long hours from home.... and he watched me do it with a smile on my face and a kick in my step - because I was doing something I enjoyed and I was doing something that I was good at.... but mostly - because I was doing it for us.
So - get off your high horse talking about other peoples beliefs and the way that we raise our children and learn to be a little more accepting of other peoples choices. Or... perhaps you are not quite evolved enough to do that.....
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