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August 28, 2006, 2:08 am PDT
Me to
Quote From: jadessa0I met this guy, everything was terrific he's the only one who has ever satisfied me (in bed) and then one day he doesn't want sex anymore and I mean NOTHING!!!! No French Kissing no nothing! I am so frustrated I could scream, I love him he is a fantastic guy treats me great it's just this one thing. I've talked to him about, it I've tried everything in my power to boost confidence, make him feel secure make him realize it's the intimacy I am missing in our relationship and that he is this fabulous person and so hot, and so on but nothing works. I don't get it and it really hurts being rejected over and over again. It's been twice in 7 months. I know for absoloute 100% he is not cheating so please don't go that route. This situation sounds so much like mine. I love the guy. We have our problems, like any relationship. We've been together for 1.5 yrs. Initially the sex was good. I can't say great, have had better, but had never had anyone more interested in pleasing me and what I wanted. Like you, I've had it twice in 7 mos. I did feel comfortable intitating until that time. Now, I don't even try because I just can't take the rejection anymore. I know that I am repulsive and ugly and why would anyone want to be with me. I am just lucky that he will be seen in the same room with me. At least that is how I feel when I let myself think about it. I have told him this is how his rejection makes me feel and he says- "oh, that's just stupid. I love you. Stop being so dramatic." All intimacy is gone and I don't know if it can be brought back. I do know that if he doesn't take it seriously that it can't. If it can't- then there's no romantic relationship left. All it is is friendship. I for one, will do my best to pull away and move on. It will hurt, but without intimacy....
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