Quote From: mistycIn my single days, it seemed that men avoided marriage like a proctology examine. I finally did marry in my 30's and even though my husband was fearful of marriage he knew it was important to me and he loved me enough to commit.
If all single men want is a "roll in the hay" why not go to a bar and pick up a drunken floozy, and leave the nice marriage minded ladies alone.
The real reason why men fear marriage has NOTHING to do with FIDELITY. Rather, it has to do with the fact that WOMEN choose to DIVORCE and then STEAL 50% of the husband's money-whether or not they earned it!
I thought since you had your own money, you no longer needed OURS.
To review, fidelity is not the problem. THEFT is.