Quote From: horseluver I have been dating my boyfriend for more than 2 years now. I am 20 years old, and he is 18. I love him very much. He dropped out of high school his second semester of his senior year to become a manager of a company he's still working for. The office that was here closed down, so he was going to have to move to continue working for this company, which was his dream. But he didn't want to leave me, so I told him if he didn't leave, I would break up with him. So he left. He lives 3 hours away. We didn't talk for the first 3 months he moved. Then we started dating again. I get to see him 2 or 3 weekends a month. I have a hard time dealing with that because I want someone I can see whenever I want. And I'm dealing with depression so I feel like that makes it even harder for me. He says that he's going to move back if he can when he opens his own office. But he also says that there are not any cities near me that he can open an office in. Did I make a mistake telling him to go? I feel like I have...
I have also asked him what his main priority in live is, and he said to be succesful... but mine is to find love and be happy. And he said that, "well, if you're rich, then you're happy."... but I know that money doesn't buy you happiness.
He asked me to move to where he lives, but I can't even afford my car payments every month, I have a horse that I would have to have somewhere to keep, I'm still in college, and what would I do for a job? Plus, I don't want to move away from my family. I feel like, "well, you left me, so you should come back to me if you want to be with me."
Someone please help me figure out what I should do!
Oh, hun, c'mon! You're unhappy, he's got different priorities than you do. And, you're both Really young. I say it's time to look around and see what YOU like, who YOU are, and what YOU want... try it... Let him go, if he comes back to you, he's yours, if he doesn't, he never was...
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