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January 4, 2006, 9:57 pm PST

I enjoy being single, but I do NOT hate men!

Quote From: jim1970

The only kind of woman who enjoys being single is one who hates men in the first place.

I have seen many of your posts, and I do not know why you have this complex against women, but it is really unnecessary!  Why do I enjoy being single?  I have the freedom to learn things.  I married a sociopath very young, and although I did all in my power to make it work, I barely got out alive,  He always told me that he hated my laugh, so I learned never to laugh under any circumstance.  After 7 years of intense psychological torture (yes, this is clinical diagnosis) I could barely tell anyone my first name, let alone leave my home (not even go out the door to get the mail).  It has taken me two years of therapy to even go out in public and meet people.  I have learned so much, but I have not hurt anyone in the process.  I am not ready to make a serious commitment, due to my anxiety, and the residue of the years with him.  I don't even hate him, although he tried to kill me (again)a couple months ago.  Thankfully, he's in jail and headed to prison or the state psych ward.  I will be 26 in a few days.  I have even met someone special.  We have a meaningful, but not stressful, relationship.  I do not want to take away his freedom and he does not want to take mine.  We both enjoy each other's company and we do fun things together.  There may be a time when I become his girlfriend but neither of us are worried about technicalities.  Jim, there are lots of nice, caring women out there.  You will find one or two or two hundred to choose from.  Okie-Dokie? 

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~Sunshine~ 

 
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April 10, 2006, 4:15 am PDT

Love Being Single

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The only kind of woman who enjoys being single is one who hates men in the first place.

What a bunch of pinheaded nonsense! Your perception is that of a childs. I LOVE being single. Not having the need to rely on a man for everything certainly do not make women who love being single hater of men.  

Expand your narrow thinking a bit.  

 


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