Quote From: labelfreeI was sexually abused by my brother from age 5-13. I was also inapproipratly touched by my father. He tried sticking his tonuge down my throat and grabbing my chest right when I was starting to develope breasts and it really truly disgusted every part of me. When I was in my late 30's my oldest sister told me our Father actually molested her when she was a little girl after I gave her a book called "Secret Survivors" by Sue E. Blume it was kind of a techniqnical manual and My sis thought I had some kind of magical powers and I was able to see something in her and she came over and cried her eyes out when in actualtie I gave her the book to show her why I was so messed up!
The only thing I can say to help you to start out with that SAVED MY LIFE IS GET DR> Phil's LIFE STRAGIES.... You will see the web of lies with your own eyes.
This is very hard work.
It must be done. If you want to win at this game we call LIFE.
Be a winner...OKAY...JOIN me..YOU have to do The work as I did and the others did before me.
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Hi Labelfree,
Your posts have been extremely comforting and helpful to me....THANK YOU!
Several people here have talked about being pressured to forgive.
I've noticed that denial can come in many forms.
Nine times out of ten when people start babbling about forgiveness
it's really just another form of denial.
Another way of trying to make people shut up.
Another way of stuffing feelings.
Another way of "let's all pretend incest doesn't exsist in our family".
Incest is unforgiveable.
It is Premeditated First Degree Soul Murder...committed over & over & over & over again.
We can, however, work a recovery program to reach a place of acceptance
and strive to live our best life in spite of it.
