Quote From: alissare17my wife and i want to conceive badly.the problem is that my wife lives far from me in an other town.i don't know how serious this problem is.but i have many unanswered questions:should the baby(i want a baby-girl),once she comes,be with me or with my wife?i must precise,that my mother is willing to help in that matter,but if the would-be baby stays with me,that's mean she would mess the breast-feeding by her mother..
notice:im 29,my wife is 25 years old.i and my wife meet once every 15 days.please help me to reach a decision..thank you
I think that the baby needs both of you not just one, especially if you want to get to know the baby. If yall only see each other every 15 days. That would be alot on either of you. Its important that the baby is with the mom when its an infant just because it has been in her belly for 9 months and know her voice. A comfort zone for the baby. Your wife will also need support from you when she get home from the hospital shell be drained and it'll catch up with her eventually. You got to stop that before it starts. My husband learned that from our first child. I had alot of help from him and family especially with my 1st one. Its tiring and very stressful after a while. My opinion you should be with her and the baby.
