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January 5, 2006, 10:44 pm PST
 Quote From: xtremeairy Dear Intellectually Bankrupt, I am just a 16 year old girl. I read your post and I was just going to say incase Dr. Phil doesn't reply to you I wanted to maybe give you some small advice that I have.
I don't know your whole story. I don't even know who you are or your problems, but what I do know is that you do have a story and you do have problems that you are struggling with. In the beginning of your post you mention your childhood and its affect on your life right now. Well, not to just talk about my troubles, I do have a hard life as well. I don't have a mother. She decided to treat me very cruel after my parents divorced and when I chose to live with my dad. But something that helps me through every day is just telling my self that my parents do not effect my life. Sometimes it makes it harder but I am in control of my life and so are you. You have your own mind and you can make your own choices. Don't let your past life run your future. Take whatever problems you might have had and turn them into something to learn from. For example not having a mother has shown me what I would like to have in a mother. I try to remember all the times when I wish my mom was there or I wish she would give me some wisdom. This way I will hopefully know when my kids want me and how important I know parents really are.
You are only 30 and have so much life left. Take each day one at a time and remember that this is your life and you have just one. Make every moment count. Its only one chance to have a great life and only you can make it a good life. No one else. I wish you all the luck in the world.
I'm sorry if I bugged you and this letter only gets you frustrated, *Arianna Wow, are you sure that you are only 16???? You have a fantastic attitude, and with that, you will go far in your life goals. (maybe you will be the next "Dr Phil!!!) You have learned early in life to take responsibility for yourself. There is no sense in passing blame. Bravo to you!!!! I have a 16 yr old son, a 14 yr old daughter, and a 6 month old baby boy. I was thrilled to read your post, as you are a very intelligent, and have a definite sense of who you are. I am sure that your Father, (and yes, even your Mother) is sooooo proud of you! I see the everyday hardships that my teenage children endure. If you EVER need a shoulder, or just someone to listen, I would be honored and thrilled to be there for you.
As far as "Intellectually Bankrupt" is concerned, well, he needs to acknowlege (as the good Doc says) and get a grip!!!! Life is not a bowl of cherries, after all.
Arianna, you are wise beyond your years, and I am so proud of you!!!! I hope that you respond to my post, as you have completely blown me away.
Take care Little Angel.
Sincerely, Deb |
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