Quote From: wolfiesome times i really wonder if any one really did watch the show or not..... this shouldn't be a religuos topic of if you believe or not.... and giveing your heart to god thing... *sighs*  
believeing what one needs to believe in, as long as it is possitively..... its all in the thinking. being good to your self, and good to others, good things will come. and so on. 
For what it is worth. It goes hand in hand. I want to do good because the love of the Lord Jesus is within me and His love makes me want to be good to myself, and good to others foremost, and then I feel good things will come with Christ who strengthens me. Plain and simple, it's all about love. And from my humble opinion the people who were on the show today do not love themselves. For I believe that if someone has that love within them they would never feel as if they were "cursed."
In Sharon's case though, I think a lot has to do with the love from her parents. Because if someone could do that to their own child (even misguided as I believe they definitely were) there were more than likely other issues arising in that family.
Amy