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January 6, 2006, 2:02 pm PST
 Quote From: kwyia34 I believe that curses are real. I know that this may sound crazy but i have done some deep reading on this. Now i feel like i have been cursed when it comes to men and my life in general. The reason i say this is because my foster mom was also. When she was young, this lady told her mother that she had been cursed by her aunt and that she could take it off of her for a quarter. You know back then that was good money in the late 40s. Well my foster grandmother who was an ordained minister refused to believe it and did not want to participate. The lady told her if she didn't do it, my foster mom would have problems with men she comes in contact with and also health problems where she would stay sick all the time. Well that is exactly what happened. My foster mom could not have any kids so she took me in at 2 months as her foster child. As i grew up, i saw all the problems she had with men so far as money, responsibilities, love, etc. I mean this woman was a good wholesome person who was the jack and jill of all trades but could not keep a man. Her health was deteriorating and soon passed away at the age of 43. I feel as though this curse has fallen upon me. I have problems with men. It is not that i cannot pick them but they are all worthless. Just like my foster mom, i am a good wholesome woman but i have been cursed since birth. My real mother didn't want me but kept my older sister. I grew up with no father. The way my foster mom had problems with men is the way i have problems with men also. She told me too. She said when i grow up, a man will never understand me, use me and disrespect me. Also she said people in general would too. It seems like i have the words "use me" written across my forehead. I have worked with numerous people and it seems like one out of the bunch comes up to me and ask me for things. I definitely know that i am accident prone. I have had an accident every year since i have had my license in 1994. It just seems like everything happens to me and i am a good person. I know i have had people tell me that a curse is what you make of it but even when i talk against it , things just happen anyway. I believe that there is apparent evil in the world, call that curses, do what you will, but I also believe life is all about choices as well. We can choose to think a certain way just like we choose what to wear each day. Personally I don't believe there is a curse on you. I think the power of suggestion is very powerful and I think by hearing your foster mom say these things, and probably not just once or you may not have remembered as well as you have, that you have taken this belief upon yourself. I believe bad things happen to good people, I think everyone has had problems in life. I think the most important thing we can do is to pick ourselves up and make the most out of what may be a bad situation. I belief that is a true test of who you are and what makes you, you. I know I learned the most about myself through the trials I have had in life. Also, about the men problem you seem to be having. I totally believe that once you stop looking and say come what may, then love hits you. At least that is what happened in my life as well as my husbands' life. He said that same thing when we fell in love. He said that when you stop looking, not that you totally give up on love, but if you are just living life to the fullest, love will find you. Amy |
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