Quote From: moonglow38I am a single parent...and converative...I DO NOT want to "look sexy" to get THOSE kind of men...:( geewise Dr. Phil...why can't you and the others on your show push women to simply look attractive...and not have them 'sell their bodies'. This sexy junk only attractive slimy men that then just want to sleep with them and dump them...
Women have lost their self respect in this way by having to "sell their bodies" to get a man to look at them. I would rather remain unmarried the rest of my life then fend off men like that!! Believe me I have done the 'sexy look' and know what kind of men it attraches...:( I ended up marrying a horrible man because I had no self respect...and now have been single for a number of years..and not looking! I LOVE being single! I do not need a man to make me happy.
I honestly don't know why a woman can't be happy without a man...but that is another subject for another show I suppose. Its just sad that this type of focus is on your show more and more. I don't see anyone pushing loney single men to 'look sexy' to attract women...in which they too would just attract the wrong kind of woman too actually.
Doing hair and the makeup and nice clothes is ok....but lets leave the cleveage out...the women would like a man to actually make eye contact rather then staring at her cleveage while making small talk....makes you just wanted slug the guy that is for sure! But then what can a woman expect with half her breast showing like that! geez.
If I was looking for a man, I would want one that loved me for who I am, and not how much of my body is being flashed around...blah on that!
Julie
Julie,
Yes, Julie, I believe you are right. I have noticed the same thing about men, when I dress sexy I seem to attract the undesirables, and I receive unwanted attention. No need for them!! A little while ago there was a show ( I don't remember which) that touched on the new models that are coming out. Ordinary women, not supermodels, are modeling now and what I found very refreshing was that a lot of the men they asked opinions of said they actually liked what they saw, and one went as far as to say something along the lines of wanting to see more women like that modeling because it is more realistic. You don't have to be single, because there are men out there that have those same values as you and I, it's just more difficult to find them. I do not want a man in my life who wants me around for a trophy, those men are not they type of people who have the moral fiber that I feel is required in my life and are not mate material.
Donna
