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January 7, 2006, 2:31 am PST
Hmmm, No
Quote From: kit561 I am so tired of seeing a pretty girl wearing sweats made over suddenly into a pretty girl wearing a skirt. Sure, they put on some makeup, did her hair, and dressed her in feminine clothes. So what? She was pretty before. There are some people, and I include myself among them, that are just plain ugly and nothing is going to help. I'll never date again, never get remarried, and that's just life. Shows like these seem to generate unreal expectations.  
An ugly man can become rich or powerful and women will look past the exterior and find him attractive. Men don't care how honest or truthful a woman is, how kind or successful, it's all about 
the pretty face and body. It's just the way it is. I wish   I was a lone father who hung around with other lone fathers: Most of us dated a lot.
I know some women who fit the definition of really ugly: Including one whose face was nearly burned off when she was a teenager. We lone fathers dated a good few of those women. One of us married the really ugly woman.
Why? Because beneath that scared face was a wonderful person. That scared woman married an NFL back. Not exactly wealthy, but doing OK. A decent man. A BIG MAN! Huge actually. He needed someone who could see around his mountanous size and see the sensitive man underneath. He needed someone who could see around 400 lbs of big with a 20 lb todler clinging to him. She did, she could see what lay underneath.
Beauty will get a woman a first date. That is all it will get her. There are many other ways to get a first date. Beauty is only one.
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