Replies to 'Infidelity'

   It is so sad that morals just don't exist isn't it?

 

  Be the better person and protect your son. He will benefit by seeing his mom fight for what is right.

I teach college, so the rules are different for me, I'm sure. I would think, in your case, that a phone call to her superviser might result in her being fired. It is a HUGE breach of ethics for her to have an affair with the married father of one of her students, especially considering that her actions have resulted in harm to one of her students (i.e. she broke up his parents and he had to switch schools because of it). You'll have to decide for yourself, however, how important revenge it to you and whether or not it would be revenge if you were to take legal action against her. I would probably stop at the phone call and let the school handle it from there. I wouldn't want to involve myself in the ugliness of a law suit. My first husband had an affair with a woman he worked with. They had both been reprimanded for the inappropriate content of their emails back and forth to each other but neither of them was fired. I certainly considered calling their boss and letting her know just how far it had gone in hopes that one or both of them would get fired. I also considered calling her husband and telling him about her affair. I did neither of these things. Ultimately, I decided that my energies were much better spent getting MY life back on track and taking care of my daughter. Besides, foul deeds rise. I figured she would get hers some day and I didn't need to to soil my hands helping that along. So sorry to hear you have to go through this. Just know, it does get better. You will recover. Good luck. 

 

Hubby is a great guy.  Not only gonna ruin his child's home, but school as well.  Time for new school.  Is this school by any chance Christian as well as private?  If so, bet you could cause some trouble.  Otherwise, I do not think anyone cares about good role models, they just need bodies in the teaching slot.  New nannie may be a good idea too.  Careful about legal issues here.

 

The real question here is do you want to do this?  Do you have the money to do this?  Doing the right thing makes you the better person.  Maybe a lawyer consult would help you decide.