Quote From: bonnieflecI've been taking my 12 yr. old daughter to therapy every week for over a year doing cbt 
therapy. Her therapist thinks my daughter needs meds and it has been one step forward three 
steps back. The house is getting more contaminated and the less places she can walk thru, touch 
and be free to just be. My heart aches for her and it is also hard for the family to cope. I believe 
in meds but am nervous. My now 24 yr. old was treated for depression when she was 14 and after 
taking prozac became manic and was diagnosed w/ bipolar. I have been looking for a psychiatrist 
and it seems like all the good ones don't take insurance and I'm worried that my husband will flip 
out if I pay a doctor not on our plan. The therapist I take her to isn't on our plan, but I really like 
her and I am seeing her as well w/ other of my issues past & present. Does anyone have any 
good feedback about ocd and meds for children? 
Thank you and God Bless 
 
Hello, I am 40 years old and am just discovering why I behave the way I do.
Your comments re. your daughter's behaviour suggest that you may wish to resarch Tourette syndrome which sometimes overlaps with OCD. Don't Panic! Great people such as Samuel Johnson and the soccer player Tim Howard had/have this condition, as do many other successful and happy people. Therapists sometimes fail to recognise this connection, even experienced ones.
The screaming fits that you describe in a later response to this quote made me think of this.
Some people seem to feel that eliminating symptoms or behaviour is the answer, through therapy or medication. Personally I think that those around your daughter have to be educated as to her anxieties, although her own rituals should not be allowed to restrict her (or your) life. Stick to reducing the really intense rituals and tolerate the rest. General tolerance and education about these conditions would make life more bearable for us and lower our anxiety levels. I share your doubts about medication.
It occurred to me that all the attention that this condition must be focusing on your daughter might be raising anxieties in your family generally and her failure to improve may be a reaction to that.
I hope things ease up soon for the sake of everyone in your household.