Quote From: don_juanlgostola, It seems to me that your boyfriend is just not interested anymore. I mean, no matter WHERE he is, if he wanted to get hold of you, he would make a plan. I think that you are just trying to make up excuses for him not calling you because you are scared of the harsh truth that he has just left and doesn’t plan on coming back. I know for a fact that if I loved a girl, I would definitely make a plan to speak to her, and he has been gone for a while now and you have not heard from him even once.  
 
Yes, there could be a million reasons explaining why he hasn’t called you, but like I said, if you really meant SO much to him, he would make a plan to reach you somehow. I’m sure he has your e-mail address? So why couldn’t he stop at an internet café and send u an email telling you where he is and what’s going on etc? This guy, in my opinion, isn’t the type of guy that will be able to lead a mature long serious relationship, and my recommendation to you is to find someone else and try get over this guy.  
 
Despite my opinion and what I think, I still hope that I am wrong and that he DOES come back to you etc.:) 
thanx for all your help that you have given me, from my parents and my friends and you i have found to know that hes not coming back... and i am moving on with life, cuz i also dont need someone like that to make me feel like a nothing... and i am young so there also has to be someone else out there who will love me for me... and i dont think that you are wrong at all its been 2 weeks so i know that hes not coming back at all... and i also want to thanx you for how open you are with me on this, cuz i dont need someone to tell me something that i want to hear... so thanx... but it is hard and im taking day by day... and i have started to go out with my friends more now, so i can get back to being me again... i dont need someone like him and im glad that i have people like you to point that out to me....
THANX
lindz :)