Replies to 'Differing Sex Drives'

I understand how you feel. My now husband made the unfortunate move after we'd only been dating for a few weeks of giving me access to an old online journal he had once kept. It was all very old stuff. The most recent entry was a year before he met me. But he had written about all of his previous girlfriends and their sex lives and it took me a long time to get past some of the words he had written about some of them: how great the sex was, how hot this one was or that one, how passionate the relationship was, etc. And these were things he had written years before meeting me. Still, I had a terrible time getting some of his words out of my head and not wondering all the time if he felt the same way about me. We're married now and I hardly ever think of those doubtful days. So much time has passed, I doubt that he has any clear memories at all of sex with anyone but me. I know I certainly don't remember any of my previous lovers clearly. They've all just sort of faded together and into each other and I really don't remember any of the details of our sex lives. Time will probably take care of this problem with your guy, too. As long as he's not cheating on you are actively comparing you to anyone else, you should be fine. Just keep his focus on you and he'll eventually forget all the others.