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January 27, 2006, 5:51 pm PST
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Quote From: annanutI ask men to hurt me during sex. While i know a lot of others who also do this, which makes me think its normal, this may be because I associate with other people like me. What does everyone else think about this? My first question on reading this is where do you find these men at? Are they experienced in hurting women if not..then STOP playing with immediately. Please understand that there is a lifestyle that goes with this, and if they (the men) don't know what SANE or RACK stand for, then you need to tell them good bye. If the Dom for that is what they are called, or Master is experienced then they should enlighten you, protect you, and make you feel GREAT..if they belittle you, hurt you emotionally, or physically in a way you don't want to, then it is ABUSE. There are some great support groups, out there, and munches you can attend to get additional information on the lifestyle. But if you are picking a strange guy up and you are asking him to hurt you, and he has no idea what he is doing he can peramently damage your body and your spirit.
lilly
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