Quote From: poepadI agree, she is a chronic complainer. I suspect that is what drove her childrens father away.
Concernig her request to what would make her happy, by having Marion get the kids ready for school. WHAT the fruit is she doing working midnight shift. She complained about not seeing him enough, the chooses a shift that is sure to kill sex life.
Checking acct, I have no problem with with separate checking accts, provided that the paychecks go into a joint acct. And that the seperate checking accts are for personal spending allowances.
Poe
I normally just watch the show and make my own comments at home. But folks, is it me but Shamika's posture in general was "Ms. Thing" I need, I want, I, I, I. I know perhaps her husband talking about he wanted to cry was a tad dramatic, but nothing seemed to make her happy.
Sometimes it's the small things and the idea of her taking a job a night when he's at home makes no sense to me. Where is the time to cultivate and work on a marriage if neither party is available. What a 1/2 hour before he goes to work in the morning?
She was so gun ho on what was wrong or what she didn't get it seemed like a struggle to come up with the good stuff.
I agree about the checking account. I when I was married we had a household account but my checking account was strictly for personal items. Interesting enough we communicated that we would set up this type of an account way before we even got married simply because I knew he like to spend.
Overall, I see a lack of communication where she in particular thinks her husband is to be a mind-reader. I wish them luck and lots of prayer...
