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January 16, 2006, 9:23 pm PST
OLD GIRLFRIENS
Quote From: mrshadmanI agree that female friends are not really the problem, and they should definitely meet Michelle--I wanted an opinion on my situation.
An old girlfriend of my husband sends gifts to my daughter (9 mos old) and calls my husband's cell phone instead of our home phone. I've asked him to ask her not to send gifts, but that's all. I want her to not call him at all, but I don't feel that's my place. I think I would feel differently if she called our house instead of his cell phone and at least made small talk with me. I just feel uncomfortable and my husband thinks I should just "get over it." Am I being unreasonable? NO YOU ARE NOT UNREASONABLE! I HAVE BEEN ON THIS TRIP AND IT IS HEARTBREAKING. WHAT DOES HE SAY ABOUT HER CALLING HIS CELL INSTEAD OF THE HOUSE? HAVE YOU MET THIS GIRL? HAS SHE BEEN TO YOUR HOME? ANYONE WHO DOESN'T WANT TO BE FRIENDS WITH BOTH OF YOU IS TROUBLE.HOW CAN THEY BE SUCH GOOD FRIENDS WITHOUT YOU IF YOU ARE SUCH A IMPORTANT PART OF HIS LIFE? FOLLOW YOUR GUT FEELINGS.
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