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January 19, 2006, 3:52 am PST
 Quote From: debhgn Read this, surely I'm not the only person seeing this! So how are we as women supposed to have any kind of meaningful relationship with a member of a species that is constantly on TV, news print, ads, talk shows, etc as having committed such horrible acts against women and children?? This is NOT a sarcastic remark in any way. I'm asking this question for the depth of my soul. How can a woman let a member of this species touch her sexually and feel anything but pure sickness! It is said that it's not about sex, it's about control. I have to disagree. It's more about the control of the sex. If men were told daily of all these horrible and disgusting things about women do you think they would want a loving and intimate relationship with a woman. After years and years and years of hearing of and being warned of all the sickening things women were capable of in their desire to fulfill their sexual needs would a man desire the woman. Want her to bear his children, be his life companion? The horrible acts that are more frequently exposed than ever before have devastated the psyche of women throughout the world. Leaving the hope of a meaningful relationship between a man and a woman forever fleeting the grasps of both species. Each day that passes and another unthinkable act upon a child by a man is exposed brings me closer to the core feeling that now exists inside me. That feeling being I am increasingly hating ALL men, not necessarily because of whom they are but WHAT they are! As I see it, Men throughout the world should be rising up against these creatures of sexual desire. Those whose desire is so strong they kill and maim children to satisfy their lust. Not only do we have the sexual exploits of men splashed on every news program, billboard and print media, we are also saturated with all the other forms of abuse, physical and mental these creatures inflict upon women and children. Each day that passes I find it harder to put my arms around my husband without flinching at the thought of becoming intimate with him. I feel doing so would only be contributing to the sickness. If they were other than human, would they be allowed to live? Take a moment and look at what little they now contribute and the extent to which they have eroded and corrupted civilization then tell me I am wrong. If they were a creature, a bacteria, a virus would we not be doing everything possible to eradicate them from society? I am so sorry you see this as true of "all" males. I am here to tell you this is NOT the truth. Although I am certain that some humans (not just men) are capable and DO these unspeakable acts on children and women....this is NOT the majority of men. Actually when speaking about men and porn...there is still a debatable small number of men "addicted" to porn in comparison to those who don't use porn. Sorry, but that's true. Even though, I doubt any number is correct. (Who's going to tell us the truth anyway). The fact is, there are many men who are heroes right now on this very day. Many men, who give their lives to protect women, children...total strangers. There are millions of wonderful giving, caring, loving, husbands who love and cherish their families, their wives. But how boring would the news be to this society if they put numerous stories about the goodness of man? How "addicted" are we as a society to hearing only the saturated news of horrors that men (and women) do out there? The ratings would seriously go down if they weren't fillled with the bloody gore of bad news???
When I see this way too much....I have to sometimes take a news "fast" and flip past the news of the day. It's overwhelming! I also have to remind myself that they only report the bad, not the good of human beings. There are men right now sleeping in tents, sleeping bags, in cold whether, right along side brave women, fighting a war they shouldn't have to fight to help those they don't even know. There are men in white coats saving little lives from illness and serious injury. There are Dad's who go to 12 hour work days feeling overwhelmed with pressures of daily life and still getting up every day doing the same job...just to survive. There are husbands facing their wives certain death from disease and he's holding her and taking care of her and the kids too.
Look at the goodness sometimes...look at who is saving these little ones damaged by other sick people. Look at those who care deeply enough that they take them in everyday and give some kids new chances they would never have. There ARE so many good people still breathing the same air with you. YES< this world is in serious trouble.....it's rampid...or is it just rampidly reported more these days?
Hold on tight...things will get worse. But please don't put all men into one catagory and think for a second that women are doing anything better these days anyway....they are not. WE are all equally responsible for the decline in this world. If by nothing else...accepting it from the beginning and letting it get out of control. After all,....how many mothers today do you see acting as if they never grew up....striving to be 16 their whole life...raising daughters to believe they aren't worth anything unless they are a 32DD cup...and dress like the average "call girl" to go to school.....look at how many have never once knelt down and spoke a prayer over their children......look at how many have not once spent a day just being a "mom" anymore...because the Lexus in the drive way is more valuable than the time....
We don't have to BE like this....we, individually have a choice everyday to do one thing to make this better....EVEN if it's JUST for our own husbands.....or our kids. That's where change starts....letting those around us see US being loving and caring people. Don't let this bad news take hold and make you see everyone negatively....it will only make things worse inside your world. Pray and believe....because an end to these evils is on the horizon and its' sure to happen. Smile and rest assured that there are good people in this world.....aren't YOU one of them?
Welcome here....what is your take on this inside your own life? Are you OK....or has this harmed you in some way you can share. Believe this.....even here on this board....And inside my own life...men can be wonderful, they are. Men are JUST AS hurting and affected by this in many ways...this is NOT a gender thing.....this harms both sexes. And it will take both sexes to do something about it.
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January 19, 2006, 4:50 am PST
Quote From: debhgn Read this, surely I'm not the only person seeing this! So how are we as women supposed to have any kind of meaningful relationship with a member of a species that is constantly on TV, news print, ads, talk shows, etc as having committed such horrible acts against women and children?? This is NOT a sarcastic remark in any way. I'm asking this question for the depth of my soul. How can a woman let a member of this species touch her sexually and feel anything but pure sickness! It is said that it's not about sex, it's about control. I have to disagree. It's more about the control of the sex. If men were told daily of all these horrible and disgusting things about women do you think they would want a loving and intimate relationship with a woman. After years and years and years of hearing of and being warned of all the sickening things women were capable of in their desire to fulfill their sexual needs would a man desire the woman. Want her to bear his children, be his life companion? The horrible acts that are more frequently exposed than ever before have devastated the psyche of women throughout the world. Leaving the hope of a meaningful relationship between a man and a woman forever fleeting the grasps of both species. Each day that passes and another unthinkable act upon a child by a man is exposed brings me closer to the core feeling that now exists inside me. That feeling being I am increasingly hating ALL men, not necessarily because of whom they are but WHAT they are! As I see it, Men throughout the world should be rising up against these creatures of sexual desire. Those whose desire is so strong they kill and maim children to satisfy their lust. Not only do we have the sexual exploits of men splashed on every news program, billboard and print media, we are also saturated with all the other forms of abuse, physical and mental these creatures inflict upon women and children. Each day that passes I find it harder to put my arms around my husband without flinching at the thought of becoming intimate with him. I feel doing so would only be contributing to the sickness. If they were other than human, would they be allowed to live? Take a moment and look at what little they now contribute and the extent to which they have eroded and corrupted civilization then tell me I am wrong. If they were a creature, a bacteria, a virus would we not be doing everything possible to eradicate them from society? Its so sad to see some one so angree at the world ! I would love to know your story, why you hate men so much ! surely it can't just because of what the press and media say, you had to have had a terrible ordeal with men to feel the way you do ! and yet you are married ? who hurt you so badly ??? |
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January 19, 2006, 7:10 pm PST
Quote From: debhgn Read this, surely I'm not the only person seeing this! So how are we as women supposed to have any kind of meaningful relationship with a member of a species that is constantly on TV, news print, ads, talk shows, etc as having committed such horrible acts against women and children?? This is NOT a sarcastic remark in any way. I'm asking this question for the depth of my soul. How can a woman let a member of this species touch her sexually and feel anything but pure sickness! It is said that it's not about sex, it's about control. I have to disagree. It's more about the control of the sex. If men were told daily of all these horrible and disgusting things about women do you think they would want a loving and intimate relationship with a woman. After years and years and years of hearing of and being warned of all the sickening things women were capable of in their desire to fulfill their sexual needs would a man desire the woman. Want her to bear his children, be his life companion? The horrible acts that are more frequently exposed than ever before have devastated the psyche of women throughout the world. Leaving the hope of a meaningful relationship between a man and a woman forever fleeting the grasps of both species. Each day that passes and another unthinkable act upon a child by a man is exposed brings me closer to the core feeling that now exists inside me. That feeling being I am increasingly hating ALL men, not necessarily because of whom they are but WHAT they are! As I see it, Men throughout the world should be rising up against these creatures of sexual desire. Those whose desire is so strong they kill and maim children to satisfy their lust. Not only do we have the sexual exploits of men splashed on every news program, billboard and print media, we are also saturated with all the other forms of abuse, physical and mental these creatures inflict upon women and children. Each day that passes I find it harder to put my arms around my husband without flinching at the thought of becoming intimate with him. I feel doing so would only be contributing to the sickness. If they were other than human, would they be allowed to live? Take a moment and look at what little they now contribute and the extent to which they have eroded and corrupted civilization then tell me I am wrong. If they were a creature, a bacteria, a virus would we not be doing everything possible to eradicate them from society? Cuz yesterday my mom was watching lifetime for women. Im sure ya'll know what im talking about here girls... Anyway they had on this movie it was a true story though. It was about this women who had to take her child and run with her anywhere they would not be found cuz her husband was sexually molesting there daughter. But the judges and social workers did not belive the mom or child, It was sick. How can men molest children? Im not saying all me are sick, but i see it more and more men doing this thingslike molesting boys and girls, killing there wives and etc. Its doe sstrat to wear on you and you strat thinking gosh why even be with male? Its freaky. I do think taht other men who dont do these thibgs should rise up against this stuff, and maybe stop contributing to the porn business etc. |
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