Quote From: lovingone"Black men have a tendency to date white women as an "In Your Face" to white men more than anything else"
Sorry if this is going off subject but I just had to respond to this.
I'm a black woman too and I just see us sticking our heads in the sand way to much about black men dating white women, and it only hurts us in the end.
If this is an "In Your Face" campaign it must not be working very well. I can only speak for my experiences, yours may be different. But it's gotten to the point now where what I hear from most white people (male and female) who would consider themselves not racist is that they fully EXPECT a good black man to have a wife of another race. Only racist whites are upset about it. Furthermore, white men have had no problems picking up the slack by having relationships with Asians, Latinas, and so forth.
Also your post is full of the typical myths about such relationships:
The relationship won't work. The woman has to do things to hold on to the man. The man will resent the woman. The reason he can't talk to her is because they aren't of the same race. The relationship is an "In your face to whites". The man uses the relationship to "enter" white society. The woman isn't strong or doesn't have a life of her own. The woman knew or should have known what she was getting into. There are suppressed feelings from the man towards the wife, but they really have to do with White society as a whole and not just her.
"Furthermore, white men have had no problems picking up the slack by having relationships with Asians, Latinas, and so forth"
Thank you... I live in texas...and I've noticed a lot of white men dating black women lately. So if it's happening in a conservative state like this, it's allllll gooodd! It's all a matter of education, you figure out what biologically makes us white or black or olive or yellow, and you read what your bible says about race (the whole verse and not part of it), you start realizing that all the other "stuff" is things that we as society have added.
