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January 24, 2006, 12:00 am PST

01/23 Too Hot!

Quote From: mabarker

Today guest about the lady losing the weight and now her husband don't like it.  I know how she feels.  Because I had the same thind done and I lost 140 pnds and after I done this my husband walked out on me and now we are no longer married.  When you have been fat for so long and you lost weight and you feel better you  enjoy people looking at you because before no one even thought you was a alive when you where fat...  I say enjoy your new look but make sure that your husband know and feels that you are his.  I'm so pround of you and for you feeling that you look good.  I have lost 140 pnd but I don't feel like I look good.  I'v was 278 pnds when I had it done and now I'm 135 pnds and I wish I could see that I'm not fat anymore.  So all I have to say is  

  

GO GIRL!! 

  

Mandy 

Why don't you feel good about yourself? You've just lost  what sounds like a very massive amount of weight, aren't you proud of that?  

  

I do agree with you, Bonnie would like to soak up all the attention that she gets from people that normally would have just snubbed her off before but when it's at the expense of her husband you start to get a bit concerned. The sad thing is really that she gets very defensive about her actions and can justify all of them. To her it might seem that she's just 'being friendly', compensating for the attention she should have had but really she doesn't know what kind of message that sends to the guys she's around or to her husband. Her husband might think that she's flirting on purpose because she no longer loves him anymore and that mightn't be the case but you can see how he might get the idea. His beautiful wife purposely flaunts herself infront of other men to gain attention but pays little of her own attention to her husband. 

She shouldn't be encouraged! If she seriously wants to stay married to her husband she should really stop being so selfish and consider how her actions might affect her husband and ultimately herself! 

 


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