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January 26, 2006, 9:33 am PST

01/24 Dreams, Nightmares and Night Terrors

Quote From: angieasmom

 Dr. Phil,

I CANNOT believe that you told the family with the man with night terrors/sleep walking to lock the bedroom doors of their daughters to protect them. What were you thinking? That is so dangerous! What if there was an emergency in the night like a fire? And suggesting that they tie his foot to the bedpost??? WHAT?? That is also dangerous!

I think the best solution would be to have the husband sleep in a room alone until his terrors are under control (to protect his wife) and put a motion sensor in the doorway of the room he is sleeping in so that the wife can be alarmed when he leaves the room. This way nobody is locked up or tied up!!

My son had night terrors almost nightly from age 5-7, when he was 7 I saw a show on ABC News, I think it was Primetime and there was a mom on it with a child who had night terrors. She decided to keep a journal of what times the child was having the terrors. Then she would go in about 10-15 minutes before the usual time of his terrors and rouse him ever so slightly, just enough to interupt his REM sleep. We tried this and it really works, but only for people who have night terrors regularly.

Now my son, almost 11, has been having "mini" night terrors (not as bad as when he was younger, no screaming just still sleeping and upset) / sleep walking  and just recently sleep eating. We've determined that for him the trigger is seeing a scary image, on tv, in a book etc. The most recent episode we think was from seeing a scary dvd cover at the store.

My husband is goign to be installing a motion sensor in our son's doorway so we are always alerted when he leaves his room.

Angie

The point was to lock the doors so that the girls could get out and the mother could get in, but he couldn't get in- that way no one is in danger when he has his night terrors. Dr. Phil did suggest they sleep in seperate rooms for a time, but that still won't stop him from having night terrors that may lead to him hurting himself or others. Your idea about waking slightly from sleep a few minutes before routine terrors will only work if the night terrors are routine- otherwise there's no way of telling when the night terrors will occur. Plus, if night terrors are as frequent as two or three per night, then the person who has the terrors will get very little quality sleep- possibly leading to more night terrors, not less. 

  

Personally, I think we should leave the professional advice to the professionals or those with access to the professionals and the people seeking the advice. None of us here know as much as Dr. Phil and his team about these particular people, and I would trust his advice. 

 


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