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January 27, 2006, 3:37 am PST

01/27 Money Disasters

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I have worked for as long as I can remember.  I have spent many years living alone.  I am a responsible 55 year old woman, who filed bankruptcy last year.  I used my Credit Cards to purchase needed medication, to take care of my husband who had brain surgery then a massive stroke, hospital bills, gas so that I could get to work so that I could take care of my invalid husband and yes even for food.  I did not buy luxury items!  If I had been without those Credit Cards, I/we couldn't have lived.  I took responsibility and contacted a Debt Solutions Company and paid $800.00 per month for 3 years.  The stress was too much and yes, I filed bankruptcy.  I didn't want to, I was ashamed.  So please understand there are those of us, in debt, not because we just buy and buy beyond our means, but because of circumstances that life brings to us.  Now that I am "out of debt" I have just been laid off from a Company where I have worked for 22 years!  Will this ever end!

Yes, I agree that sometimes people have legitimate reasons for using their cards, such as medical bills.  However, I do suspect that these people are the exception rather than the rule.  I am one of the smart ones who only has a $20 credit card debt (which I plan on paying of on Monday), and I acutally have money saved up that I invest regularly. 

  

I believe in only spending what money I have, so if I don't have the money I can't afford it.  Quite simple really.  I can sleep well at night knowing that I don't owe anything to anyone.  I do however believe in "good debt" such as a house loan, as the value of the asset increases in time and will be worth more than the debt itself.  I am saving to buy an investment property so that I can put that into practice. 

 
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January 27, 2006, 3:53 am PST

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I have worked for as long as I can remember.  I have spent many years living alone.  I am a responsible 55 year old woman, who filed bankruptcy last year.  I used my Credit Cards to purchase needed medication, to take care of my husband who had brain surgery then a massive stroke, hospital bills, gas so that I could get to work so that I could take care of my invalid husband and yes even for food.  I did not buy luxury items!  If I had been without those Credit Cards, I/we couldn't have lived.  I took responsibility and contacted a Debt Solutions Company and paid $800.00 per month for 3 years.  The stress was too much and yes, I filed bankruptcy.  I didn't want to, I was ashamed.  So please understand there are those of us, in debt, not because we just buy and buy beyond our means, but because of circumstances that life brings to us.  Now that I am "out of debt" I have just been laid off from a Company where I have worked for 22 years!  Will this ever end!
The people who I was referring to in my other message were those who are irresponsible with money, buying showy things that they don't need, and then getting into debt.  Dr. Phil has had many guests on in that situation.  The ones that comes to mind is that young couple that got deep into debt because they had to have luxury cars, time shares, an extremely expensive home, etc. Your situation is entirely different.  You were put in that position through no fault of your own and that is the big difference. Your case highlights the need for a much improved healthcare system in this country.  People should not have to go bankrupt to pay for medical needs and they shouldn't have to go without needed care. You should not feel ashamed...you did this to take care of a loved one.  I hope things will get better for you.
 


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